Forever in our hearts

Reginald "Roy" Godfrey

2 December 1930 to 13 July 2012

I'm sitting here tonight feeling so many emotions. Tomorrow is Anzac Day and for as long as I can remember it has been my Pa's day. But this year marks the first year that he won't be here with us. This is the first time since he passed away that I am really noticing that he isn't here. That he is really gone. It might seem crazy that it has taken 9 months for the reality to sink in. Especially considering that during those 9 months I gave birth to Little Jay, we had our first Christmas and Easter without him and his birthday. But tomorrow is such a special day, that has always meant more to our family than just a public holiday. From as young as I can remember, I was told stories about my Pa's services overseas. About the crazy things he did. About the type of father he was. About the type of husband he was. He was an amazing man and my hero. His stories will live on in us and I can't wait for the day that Bug Man and Little Jay understand the true meaning of tomorrow. Of the sacrifices that people like my Pa made for our country and that are still making today.

Tomorrow he won't be here in body, but he will be here in spirit. I can't imagine the overwhelming emotion and pride that I am going to feel tomorrow when I watch my dad march wearing my Pa's medals and I'm excited about taking Bug Man and Little Jay along for their first Anzac Day experience. I have no doubt Bug Man will be brimming with excitement watching his Poppa and DaddaG marching. For me I will watch them march with pride and remembering such a loved member of our family that is no longer with us. I have no doubt that my Pa would be so proud of my dad and DaddaG standing strong and ensuring that Bug Man and Little Jay never forget him and the sacrifices he made for our country.

You may have gone Old Man, but your spirit and legacy will live on in us.

LEST WE FORGET